Some might have an impression that, for the sake of the kids, it is better to remain in a loveless marriage than to divorce. However, in some cases, such an approach might actually run against the very goal a parent is trying to further: protecting their kids' well-being.
Many studies show that divorce can be much more beneficial for children than living in an environment with two parents who want nothing to do with each other. Here are some precautions parents who have decided to pursue a divorce can take to protect their children in the divorce.
Communicate with them
Children may not be able to understand or accept the situation between you and their other parent--or at least not right away. However, you do not want to wait to tell them and risk them finding out about the divorce from someone else. You and their other parent should set aside some time where you can both talk to them about the changes that are coming. Among the things they may need to hear are that your decision to end your marriage has nothing to do with them and that it does not affect how much you love them.
Keep sight of their best interests
It could be very easy to lose sight of children's financial needs when you are discussing property division and support with the other parent. However, divorce could put your children at a financial disadvantage. Child support could help overcome that. Remind yourself often of their needs and do what it takes to protect them financially.
Divorce is never easy when you have kids. If you are not sure of what the best course of action is for your situation, consider speaking to an attorney.